VirtuousKelly

My Love expressed for Him

2012-02-14T03:53:00.004-08:00

Hello Wonderful People Of God,

Happy Valentines Day!!!

I'm going to love myself today with a box of Chocolates and some pudding (No I am not sad just giving myself a treat *insert what's app smiley*)

Anyway while everyone is in the 'love mood' today I am reminded of a Lover I have who does not change and does not fail to show His love for me everyday. Through the good and through the bad He does not change; He is always there. To speak to me kindly and whisper words of encouragement to me with His still small voice. It's amazing because even when I am cheeky or naughty and hurt Him he is still always there. I want to use this day as I do every day to express my Love for Him through His many names.

Names are very important. To me a name shows who you are; that is why I am forever grateful to God for my parents giving me my name KELECHI which means 'Thank God'cos there is always something to thank God for.

So also my Lover has many names and I use them frequently to express my love for him. Each of His names gives me another reason to appreciate Him and Love him some more. Let me introduce you to some of His names so you'll understand why I love Him so...

El Echad: The One God (My Only God)

El Hanne'eman: The Faithful God (My Faithful God)

El Emet: The God of Truth (My God who reveals all Truth to me by his Word)

El Tsaddik: The Righteous God (My Righteous God: No fault in Him at all)

El Shaddai: The All sufficient God (My All Sufficient God: with Him and in Him I am totally Complete, He is more than enough for me)

El Olam: The Everlasting God (My God who is not limited to Time: He is the was, the is and the is to: Never Changing; My Unchanging Lover who Changes my situations around)

El Roi: The God who sees me (My God who always has my back; never leaving me nor forsaking me; even when I walk through the valley, through the pit He watches over me and reminds me that I'm on my way to my palace)

El Gibbor: The Mighty God (My God who fights my battles, who is mighty to save me from every storm)

El De'ot: The God of Knowledge (My God who knows ALL things; Hence I request for His Will to be done because He holds my life in His hands; He knew me even before I was formed in my mother's womb so He knows what my future holds)

El Haggadol: The Great God (My Great God; Beautiful in all situations; Doing great and mighty miracles that goes beyond natural explanation)

El Hakkavod: The God of Glory ( My God of Glory; He is clothed in splendour and His Glory fills my life; even when I feel at my lowest he reminds me of his Glory. All things are to His glory)

El Hakkadosh: The Holy God (My Holy God; No blemish in Him at all; sweeter than spring time purer than sunshine; My God is so beautiful to me)

El Chayai: The God of my life (The owner of my life: My Soul, My body and every fibre of me; without Him I am nothing; I love him so much)

El Sali: The God my Strength/God my Rock (Even when I am weak I run to him and I feel strength; He increases my strength and lifts me up and upholds me: I am soooooo grateful; His name is a strong tower, I run into it and I feel safe: Totally)

El Erekh Apayim avi ha-tanchumim: The God of Patience and Consolation (When I wait on the Lord and trust in Him I know for a fact that in being patient and waiting for His perfect timing He is able to console me and grant me the best; not what is good or what is better but what is BEST. He Has promised He will never Fail)

El Yesuatenu: The God of our Salvation (He saved me: My God who was selfless and sent His only begotten son just for me, My Lord who took up the flesh of man and endured all the brutality on his way to the cross just to save me from myself and from the hand of the enemy: My Lover whose blood speaks for me)

Immanuel: God with us (My God who is with me; my ever present help in time of trouble, my shield, my defence, my everything)

Please join me and appreciate my Lover; The reason for my existence who keeps on proving Himself over and over again.

Thank you Jesus: I LOVE YOU.

Have a Wonderful Day People

Yours always
VirtuousKelly
xxx

Hymns I Love: All Hail the Power

2012-01-25T03:45:00.000-08:00

My People,

Please don't get upset with me. The Lord is definitely doing a new thing in my life and in my family and in those around me and that includes YOU!!!(yes you reading)

Of late I have been spending more and more time in His presence: waiting on Him and seeking His will for my life. In this process there has been tears (lots of it) and laughter (lots of it too), confused states and also clarity. There has also been motivation and encouragement from the word. In all I am grateful for this process because in the end all the glory goes to: Yes you guessed right not any Man but to our way maker, our comforter, our bridge over troubled water, our covenant keeping God, our Banner, our shield, our defence, our lover, our friend:Yes to My God.

It's not easy to smile while your heart is heavy but have you ever wondered how you do it: you smile as a believer because you know that in ALL THINGS you are a CONQUEROR and at the end God will give you the VICTORY.

These days I prefer my hymns. They are deep. While studying today I decided to listen to this hymn: All Hail the Power. Because there is Power in the name of Jesus. So much Power (Blushing at the thought)

Brief History:

The lyrics were written by Edward Perronet while he served as a missionary in India and first appeared in the November, 1779 issue of the Gospel Magazine, which was edited by the renowned author of "Rock of Ages", Augustus Toplady.

Here are the Lyrics:

All hail the power of Jesus' name!
Let angels prostrate fall;
bring forth the royal diadem,
and crown Him Lord of all.
Bring forth the royal diadem,
and crown Him Lord of all.

Ye chosen seed of Israel's race,
ye ransomed from the Fall,
hail Him who saves you by His grace,
and crown Him Lord of all.
Hail Him who saves you by His grace,
and crown Him Lord of all.

Sinners, whose love can ne'er forget
the wormwood and the gall,
go spread your trophies at His feet,
and crown Him Lord of all.
Go spread your trophies at His feet,
and crown Him Lord of all.

Let every kindred, every tribe
on this terrestrial ball,
to Him all majesty ascribe,
and crown Him Lord of all.
To Him all majesty ascribe,
and crown Him Lord of all.

O that with yonder sacred throng
we at His feet may fall!
We'll join the everlasting song,
and crown Him Lord of all.
We'll join the everlasting song,
and crown Him Lord of all.

I love Bishop Clarence E. McClendon and the Harvest Fire Mega Mass Choir's version. They only had the first and third stanzas on the Shout Hallelujah Album. This song just takes me in. Totally.

It makes me remember/realise the magnitude of my God(Don't even know if that statement makes sense but you get my point). He is mighty, He is the King of kings; all majesty belongs to Him; He deserves all the Glory all the Honour; all the Praise; Everything.

Sometimes all that is needed to silence every situation/trouble/trial/imagination/stronghold/difficult situation is just to worship and realise that even though your problem may boast as to how big it is you are able through worship to boast back that your God is the Biggest. He is Jesus Christ.

Remain Blessed People

VirtuousKelly
xxx

Sources:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/All_Hail_the_Power_of_Jesus'_Name

Hymns I love: Higher Ground

2012-01-06T03:04:00.000-08:00

Hello People!!!

Happy New year. This year will be your year of announcement, acceleration, restoration and reconciliation. Remember to hold on to God like you've never done before. Be expectant and listen to the still small voice and not any whispering that negates the promises that God has for your life.

I must have sang this hymn 4 times out of the 6 days of this year already.:-)

Every time I sing it, it's like I get a new and deeper understanding of each verse. Today on the train while coming into work, I was singing it to myself again and once again I got something deeper. I mean I have known this hymn for most of my life time so how come now? Well I am understanding each verse better and applying it to my everyday life.

Brief History:

This hymn was written by Mr Johnson Oatman Jr. He is also the author of many popular hymns such as 'No not One' and Count your Blessings'

The composer of the music was Charles Gabriel who was considered to be the most popular and influential, gospel song writer during the evangelistic crusade
decade, 1910-20.

One of the Biblical References for this Hymn:

Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight,
and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, Looking unto
Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the
shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:1-2

Comments made by others on this hymn include:

"There is not a heart but has it moments of longing, yearning for something better, nobler, holier than it knows now.” Henry Ward Beecher.

I can not but agree more with the above quote. Sometimes life seems like a cycle and sometimes that cycle comes with pain and endless routines. Sometimes one just wants something more: The ability to live above all the circumstances that surround and plague you.

Here are the lyrics:

I’m pressing on the upward way,
New heights I’m gaining every day;
Still praying as I’m onward bound,
“Lord, plant my feet on higher ground.”

Chorus:
Lord, lift me up and let me stand,
By faith, on Heaven’s table land,
A higher plane than I have found;
Lord, plant my feet on higher ground.

My heart has no desire to stay
Where doubts arise and fears dismay;
Though some may dwell where those abound,
My prayer, my aim, is higher ground.

I want to live above the world,
Though Satan’s darts at me are hurled;
For faith has caught the joyful sound,
The song of saints on higher ground.

I want to scale the utmost height
And catch a gleam of glory bright;
But still I’ll pray till Heav’n I’ve found,
“Lord, plant my feet on higher ground.”

That's it people.

Keep looking unto Jesus: The Author and Finisher of our Faith.

VirtuousKelly
xxx

Sources:

http://www.biblestudycharts.com/HH_Higher_Ground.html

I got it all wrong: Now to make it Right

2011-11-30T04:03:00.000-08:00

Hello Lovely people,

Hope you have had a blessed time so far?

I am very well...Looking unto Jesus the Author and finisher of my faith.

I'm grateful for every day/time/era of my life. There are times when I ask myself 'why me' or 'is it only me'? But I'm glad because even in these situations I learn something about life.

Yesterday what came into my mind was: I feel I do so much for others, pray so much for others that I'm totally drained. This statement I made to myself got me thinking?

What is/are my reason(s) for helping others?

Is it for selfish gain? or out of pure niceness? Am I putting others first to receive earthly praise or am I just structured the way I am? This got me thinking.

Most times when I do things for people or go out of my way for people I just do it so maybe the answer is: I am just nice. However there are times when sincerely I do what I have to so as to be recognised by others as being good: hence I like the earthly praise. Sometimes I go ahead to do what I do because I have it at the back of my mind that it will be of benefit to me one way or another: this is selfish gain.

It's hard not to think the way I do (I choose not to believe that I am the only one who feels this way). While pondering on this, yesterday I was described with an adjective I have disliked all my life as it had been used around a lot while I was growing up.

As usual I turned to God and asked for revelation because I felt a bit drained. Scratch that I felt totally drained.

Job 42:10 came to me early this morning: After Job had prayed for his friends, the Lord made him prosperous again and gave him twice as much as he had before.

(We all know the story of Job and how his friends had told him to curse God and die. At this point God was angry with them but asked them to bring their burnt offering sacrifices. God had said He would only accept Job's prayer and not theirs.Even with the way they had scorned him in His affliction, Job still prayed for his friends.)

Job prayed for his friends in the midst of trials and gained double. I'm sure he did not pray with the mind set of 'when I pray for them I get double'. He prayed a SELFLESS prayer.

No matter how nice you are or how much you feel you are doing for others always do it Selflessly. Do it and freely and without thinking of any extra additives.

It is hard I must tell you. You have to constantly tell yourself that whatever you do is done and can not be taken back. Take it as an investment. Some investments you benefit from some you don't benefit from.

Now that I have this armed; I am going to work/walk with it and keep it as my mantra. Just do and don't think of the gain. Now I have got it right. There is only one answer to the question I asked myself and I am glad with God's help I have answered that question.

I hope this helps someone out there who feels drained of doing a whole lot. Remember: God's strength is more than sufficient for you and I.

Remain Blessed

VirtuousKelly
xxx

Hyms I Love: It is well with my Soul

2011-11-15T01:44:00.000-08:00

Hello Darlings,

Its been too long...really.

This was not the plan I had and I really need to get back on track.

Please do forgive me. My current lack of a laptop as well as so many things going on around have prevented me from having access to here. Please do accept my apologies.

So many things have gone through my mind that I'd love to share but the only thing that comes to mind to write down today is one of my favourite hymns: It is well with my soul.

Why do I love this Hymn?

Now I have not gone through half of what the Writer/Hymnist Horatio Spafford went through, but I believe I and many of us have gone through a stage where you don't really know what else to do than to pray and say one of my favourite phrases 'It is Well' Well I currently had a little phase which I believe has passed now (Hallelujah) and I know this hymn crossed my mind a whole lot. The Phrase was repeated much more. And to be sincere it really did help!!! I usually say to myself sometimes when I feel too low to pray that I'd rather pray than not pray at all as at least with prayer I know results will come no matter how long it may take. Then I end up with the line (Yes you are right) 'It is well with my soul'.

Brief History:

This hymn was written after several traumatic events in Spafford’s life. The first was the death of his only son in 1871 at the age of four, shortly followed by the great Chicago Fire which ruined him financially (he had been a successful lawyer). Then in 1873, he had planned to travel to Europe with his family on the SS Ville du Havre, but sent the family ahead while he was delayed on business concerning zoning problems following the Great Chicago Fire. While crossing the Atlantic, the ship sank rapidly after a collision with a sailing ship, the Loch Earn, and all four of Spafford's daughters died. His wife Anna survived and sent him the now famous telegram, "Saved alone". Shortly afterwards, as Spafford traveled to meet his grieving wife, he was inspired to write these words as his ship passed near where his daughters had died.

One thing that gives me joy is that after this Horatio Spafford and His wife Anna were able to pick themselves up together and eventually had 3 other children even though one died in infancy. The fact that through the pain they were still able to rely on each other and went on to form a mission in Jerusalem which helped the poor. TOGETHER. (Well that's a discussion for another day)

I prefer the original manuscript which reads 'know' at the end of the third line but most scripts read currently have 'say'

Here are the great lyrics.

When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
when sorrows like sea billows roll;
whatever my lot, thou hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well with my soul.

Refrain:
It is well with my soul,
it is well, it is well with my soul.

Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,
let this blest assurance control,
that Christ has regarded my helpless estate,
and hath shed his own blood for my soul.
(Refrain)

My sin, oh, the bliss of this glorious thought!
My sin, not in part but the whole,
is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more,
praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul!
(Refrain)

And, Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight,
the clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
the trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,
even so, it is well with my soul.
(Refrain)

That's it people. If you are a lover of hymns like I am please share your favourite hymn(s) with me as well.

Enjoy the rest of the week and don't forget no matter what that situation is or how big it may seem your God is bigger. It is well.

VirtuousKelly
xxx

Sources:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/It_Is_Well_with_My_Soul
http://www.hymns.me.uk/when-peace-like-a-river-favorite-hymn.htm

I'm Sorry!!!

2011-10-29T13:00:00.000-07:00

Hello blessed people of Blogsville

I want to apologise for being out of touch for a while now. My laptop has finally given up on me and I have been in the middle of so many things.

I do trust and believe that God has everything under control and my testimony will be shared right here and you all will be witnesses to the goodness, greatness and awesomeness of our God.

Let me just leave you for now with this:

To that person that feels there is no hope and it's the end and there's no way out- Don't give up on God. Hold on to Him. He is the author and finisher of your/our faith. There is a new anointing that is being poured out and that anointing is able to silence any and every opposition that may be standing against you. The New anointing lifts every siege and removes all kinds of reproach. The new anointing transforms every situation.

To whomever this may apply to: begin to thank God for the past, the present and the future. God has it all in control.

Remain Blessed Darlings

VirtuousKelly
xxx

What Praise Can Do

2011-10-15T02:27:00.000-07:00

Hello People!!!!!

I apologise for not dropping a post earlier on this week. So many unexpected things came up this week but I thank God cos in all things I am more than a conqueror through Christ who dwells in me. Somebody shout Hallelujah!!!!!

On this glorious Saturday morning I just want to drop a few lines to give you my first hand experience on what PRAISE can do.

I noticed a lot of visitors who come to my blog usually visit my post 'The Importance of Prayer' and I believe it has blessed them so I will give my experience also on praise.

Recently, a lot has been going on around me. There are some prayer requests I have and also partnership prayers that concern me that I pray about as well. Sometimes its hard to get into that zone when you want to really go all deep. In those situations I just tell myself to PRAISE God.

Now most of us (I included) have confused Praise to be that part of the singing, clapping and fast beat phase while worship is the more solemn phase. Due to my experience I beg to differ.

There are times when no song comes to your mind but you remember the goodness of God, His awesome power,His majesty and you begin to Praise Him. You Praising Him is an ACT of Worship in itself. The two are one and the same. It's more than the singing, its more than the clapping. It's more of a lifestyle of always having a reason to appreciate God for what He has done, what he is doing and what He will do. Most times Simply for who He is.

On Tuesday I had an awesome experience. At first the spirit was willing to pray but the flesh was weak because I had a somewhat nasty episode at work. All I wanted to do was follow my usual routine prayer and get it over and done with. Little did I know that God had a different plan for me.

So here I was about to go on my knees but while standing in my little room I just began to sing praises to God. Thinking back on it all those songs had one thing in common: They all had the theme of THANKFULNESS. Now at the time I didn't think of what I was being thankful for considering the fact that I didn't exactly have the best day. However that went on for about 20-25 mins. It came so easy that when I thought I was finally released and got on my knees to get my so called 'worship Phase' started all I could do was minister to God with words. His faithfulness, His kindness, His ability to always show up.

People I am glad I was not released early that night to go ahead with a routine prayer just cos I felt I had to. I am glad I was able to submit to His will and Praise Him the way I did. In Praising Him I worshipped His Majesty and the extent of His love for me.

On Wednesday morning all invigorated after such a powerful night session the day was worse than the last. I am sure you were expecting me to say all will be fine. Nope Worse I tell you. Right until getting home.

But People when you praise and worship God in the midst of your circumstances and you surrender everything to Him: I tell you THINGS HAPPEN!!!

Nothing happened on Thursday. All I was lead to do was read some Psalms for encouragement (Psalms 56: 3-4 and Psalm 144: 7 and 11.)

But people on Friday my God showed up for me in a wonderful way. How it came about I do not know all I know is that it has to be God only God. And I attribute it to the day I submitted to His will to Praise Him.

I can not begin to explain to you the level of joy I feel. God is taking me through something and after the first stage of manifestation on Friday I thanked and praised Him some more because I know He who began a GREAT work in me will be Faithful and more than Able to complete it.

People Watch This Space. More is about to come. Because when the Praises Go up, the Blessings come down.

This is my experience. Prayer is important but do not forget the importance of Praise as well.

Please share your experience with me and with visitors on this blog. You do not know who may need encouragement from your experience(s).

Stay Blessed and with an attitude of Praise

VirtuousKelly
xxx

Psalms I love: Psalms 66

2011-10-10T06:40:00.000-07:00

Hello Wonderful People!!!!!

How did the weekend go?

Mine was fine;busy;but fine.

It seems I'll have 3 posts in this week...Somebody shout Hallelujah!!!!!

Yesterday I was re-introduced to a Psalm I must have read before. However a verse from the psalm was read during service yesterday and prompted me to read the whole psalm.

Trust me to do some research on it. (Insert what's app smiling face smiley)

'Praise is the topic, and the subjects for song are the Lord's great works, his gracious benefits, his faithful deliverances, and all his dealings with his people, brought to a close by a personal testimony to special kindness received by the prophet bard himself. Ps 66:1-4 are a kind of introductory hymn, calling upon all nations to praise God, and dictating to them the words of a suitable song. Ps 66:5-7 invite the beholder to "Come and see" the works of the Lord, pointing attention to the Red Sea, and perhaps the passage of Jordan. This suggests the similar position of the afflicted people which is described, and its joyful issue predicted, Ps 66:8-12. The singer then becomes personal, and confesses his own obligations to the Lord (Ps 66:13-15); and, bursting forth with a vehement "Come and hear, "declares with thanksgiving the special favour of the Lord to himself, Ps 66:16-20.'

(Excerpt gotten from The Treasury of David by Charles H. Spurgeon)

This Psalm is made up of 20 verses. My favourite verses are:

Verse 3: Say to God,
“How awesome are Your works!
Through the greatness of Your power
Your enemies shall submit themselves to You.

This for some reason just makes me want to burst out with joy. My God is Awesome and not only that but through the greatness of his power which is demonstrated in the works of creation and beyond, enemies submit themselves.

Kelly's Interpretation: When I am troubled all I need to remember is how Awesome and Great my God is: in remembering how great he is every problem becomes smaller compared to Him.

Verse 12: 'You have caused men to ride over our heads;
We went through fire and through water;
But You brought us out to rich fulfilment.'

Kelly's Interpretation: Even when I go through adverse situations I will always hold on knowing that God will surely bring me out better and brighter than before. Abundance is the word.

Verse 18: If I regard iniquity in my heart,
The Lord will not hear.

Kelly's Interpretation: At times when I sin the Lord does not hear and I become susceptible to the wiles of the enemy. Therefore I must always ask God to forgive me of my sins in order for my prayers to be answered.

Verse 19 and 20: 'But certainly God has heard me;
He has attended to the voice of my prayer.

Blessed be God,
Who has not turned away my prayer,
Nor His mercy from me!'

Kelly's Interpretation: Because we serve a merciful God He will attend to our prayers. We are his children created in His image. No good thing will he deny us. All Praise be to him.

The whole Psalm is power packed. I have only highlighted verses that jumped out at me. Please read the whole of it and let me know which verses jump out at you :-) or better still your own interpretation to the whole Psalm

Don't miss me
I'll be back soon
Yours with Love

VirtuousKelly
xxx

Hymns I Love: How Great Thou Art

2011-10-05T01:29:00.000-07:00

Hello Blessed People

Hope your week has been blessed so far?

As for me I am tracing my steps back to my master. Enjoying every moment I spend with Him. Embracing Him in a new way and experiencing His presence like never before. These days I just want to burst out singing praises and worshipping Him. I thank God for His love.

Well in the spirit of my last post which you can read here I was taken back to this Hymn I love so much. It's a wonder how I don't know the full lyrics by heart considering the fact that I sing/listen to this song (well not the whole hymn) almost everyday. And thanks to CeCe Winans' rendition my love for it has grown deeper.

Why do I love this Hymn?

It is deep. Very deep. The Hymn writer tried to put in words the awesomeness and greatness of God by showcasing his creation( verse 1 and 2), the depth of his love for us by sending his son Jesus (verse 3) and also tried to create a picture of how majestic the second coming would be (verse 4). The hymn reminds me that God's awesomeness supersedes our wildest imaginations. Imagine what this God can do for you? Yes EVERYTHING!!!!!

Brief History:

The Hymn is actually based on a Swedish poem written by Carl Gustav Boberg.

'Carl Boberg and some friends were returning home to Mönsterås from Kronobäck, where they had participated in an afternoon service. Nature was at its peak that radiant afternoon. Presently a thundercloud appeared on the horizon, and soon sharp lightning flashed across the sky. Strong winds swept over the meadows and billowing fields of grain. The thunder pealed in loud claps. Then rain came in cool fresh showers. In a little while the storm was over, and a rainbow appeared.

When Boberg arrived home, he opened the window and saw the bay of Mönsterås like a mirror before him… From the woods on the other side of the bay, he heard the song of a thrush…the church bells were tolling in the quiet evening. It was this series of sights, sounds, and experiences that inspired the writing of the song'

It is believed that inspiration was also drawn from Psalm 8.

Here are the wonderful Lyrics:

O Lord my God! When I in awesome wonder
Consider all the works thy hand hath made,
I see the stars, I hear the mighty thunder,
Thy power throughout the universe displayed;

Refrain:
Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art, how great Thou art!
Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art, how great Thou art!

When through the woods and forest glades I wander
and hear the birds sing sweetly in the trees;
when I look down from lofty mountain grandeur,
and hear the brook, and feel he gentle breeze;

Refrain

And when I think that God his son not sparing,
Sent him to die - I scarce can take it in,
That on the cross my burden gladly bearing,
He bled and died to take away my sin:

Refrain

When Christ shall come with shout of acclamation
And take me home- what joy shall fill my heart!
Then I shall bow in humble adoration
And there proclaim, my God, how great thou art!

Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art, how great Thou art!
Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art, how great Thou art!

That's it people. If you are a lover of hymns like I am please share your favourite hymn(s) with me as well.

Enjoy the rest of the week and don't forget How Great our God is...

VirtuousKelly
xxx

Sources:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_Great_Thou_Art_(hymn)
http://www.pietisten.org/winter0203/howgreat.html

Going Back To Basics

2011-10-03T00:52:00.000-07:00

Hello People!!!!!

Hope you had a fantastic weekend and if you are in the United Kingdom area I hope this heat wave did not drive you slightly insane as it did to me...

Oh well we thank God for it all.

I'm quite early posting this week but it's all good as I feel this post is an appropriate post for an early post :-)

Yesterday I got talking with #AOD# and it ventured into one of our deep conversations. Now when we get into such conversations I tend to withdraw slightly and think of my words well before I speak so that I don't look silly.

Anyway he asked me a question; very simple yet I took it overboard with over thinking the question. The question was:

What is my(His) uppermost priority?

Now this question is a straight forward question that requires more often than not a single word answer.

Now here I was silent for about 30seconds thinking to myself what answer does this man want to hear from me now. The first thing that came into my mind I said to him but it did not seem to be the right answer and then I went ahead to say the next thing that came to my mind. The first was a word (name) the second was more or less an explanation.

For both answers they were wrong. And I think God was using #AOD# to remind me to go back to the basics. The simple answer he was expecting me to say was GOD.

Now why I didn't say this first I do not know. In everything I do right down to my twitter bio I describe myself as one whose aim is to please her master: that is my main purpose. And here I was being asked the same question by my other half and I had fumbled. I felt totally disappointment in myself. Not because I had failed to give the correct answer to #AOD# but because I felt I had let God down. It's like I had been going on with my daily routine of do this, pray this, read the bible this, go to church this and I had totally left out the person behind the wheel of it all.

I thank God for using #AOD# to remind me about what is really important. Pleasing GOD and doing His will ought to be and is my uppermost priority in life. It is sometimes easy to get so caught up in the rat race of life that one forgets that simple principle. May the Lord forgive me.

All through the night I tossed and turned with guilt. I have asked God to forgive me and I know He has. He then took me to two scriptures in the bible:

Matthew 6:33

'But seek FIRST his kingdom and his righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well'

Romans 8: 28

'And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to his PURPOSE'

These two scriptures I have read previously over and over again. But reading it this morning showed me that in putting God as the topmost priority the chasing of life's pleasures becomes irrelevant as these are automatically added to me once I acknowledge his SUPREMACY and Leading in my life.

The verse in Romans 8 also reiterates that as we put God first(By virtue of our love for Him: following His will and direction for our lives) we become part and parcel of His purpose and in becoming part and parcel of that PURPOSE all things ought to and will work together for our good.

I am so going back to basics. I urge you to please take some time to ask yourself this question? If you can truly answer this question and sincerely know that God is not the first thing that comes to mind please I encourage you to take the step I have taken and ask for forgiveness and GO BACK TO BASICS.

Selah

VirtuousKelly
xxx

Bible Study Focus: Galatians 3

2011-09-29T01:59:00.000-07:00

Hello People,

How has the week been?

I am so glad it's Thursday cos we are only one day away from the weekend. Thank you Jesus. This week so far has been busy. At work it's been manic and there was a time I was about to lose it; scratch that I lost it (in a dignified way though lol). Nothing major just that I spoke out. Anyway I have asked God to forgive me and give me peace and thanks to my wonderful support system (My sisters and my darling AOD) I am much better and back on track.

To the reason why we are here (insert what's app grin): as part of my new vision for this blog I will be sharing some of my bible study moment's with you guys cause I love you all so much and don't want you to miss anything I get while studying the word. I wanted to title it 'Bible Study Thursdays' but I have this feeling I won't be committed to dropping a post every Thursday so I'll just leave it as it is: Bible Study Focus

So welcome to the first of such posts (In my news reporter voice)

This July I went for a singles seminar. I usually don't go for such as to me it looked 'desperate' but now my views have changed. TOTALLY!!!!

Pastor Chris Ojigbani of Covenant Singles and Married Ministries is a minister who teaches mainly on the area of marriage. However on the first day of the seminar although the sermon was titled 'The Ultimate Marriage'it was not based on the marriage between a man and a woman but the relationship we ought to have with Christ once we become Christians.The sermon explained how so many things we go through in this life are as a result of being separated from our partner who is Christ. Once we are one with Christ by virtue of the ultimate marriage which is accepting Christ as Lord and Saviour we ought to enjoy the fullness of living a life of freedom as one who is set free is free indeed. It was a wonderful message I tell you (You can hit me up for the notes if you are interested). One of the passages he asked us to read after the sermon was Galatians 3 and I am glad that I obeyed and read this as it has totally opened my eyes and expanded my knowledge on the topic of FAITH.

Here are 10 things I picked up from Galatians 3:

1: v3 We obtain our goals not by human effort but by the spirit.

2: v6 We receive the spirit of God and the working of miracles because of our beliefs.

3: v6 Abraham believed God and it was credited to his righteousness. Therefore our belief is added unto our righteousness.

4: v9 By virtue of the faith exhibited by Abraham we are partakers of that faith and the blessings attached to it.

5: v10 A curse is placed on those who rely on the law as if the law is not observed the curse kicks in. However before God no one is justified by the law because as believers we live not by the law but by faith.

6: v.13 We have been redeemed from the curse of the law as Christ was hung on a tree for our redemption and took our curse upon Himself as it had been written 'cursed is a man who is hung on a tree'. Therefore we are no longer under the law but have been redeemed.

7: v.14 The reason for our redemption: The blessing given to Abraham will be passed not only to the jews but also to the gentiles by the blood of Jesus Christ so that our faith may be activated and we would receive the promise of the Holy Spirit. It is Faith that activates our ability to receive the Holy Spirit because how do you accept the Spirit is present if you don't believe?(belief=faith)

8: v.16 The promise given to Abraham was given to his seed also. The covenant between God and Abraham: no one can set aside or add to a human covenant that is fully established yet alone one established with God. Therefore the inheritance (blessings) that was promised to Abraham and his seed (us)is not as a result of the Law but by reason of the promise between God and Abraham (v.18). Abraham received the promise not by Law but by Faith.

9: v.19 The reason for the law: it was added because of transgressions (sin) until such a time when the seed to whom the promise referred to had come. The law being put into effect through angels by a mediator; (a mediator represents both parties but God is ONE)

10: v.23 Before faith came we were held as prisoners by the law. The law is what led us to Christ so that our faith may be justified. As we live by faith we are no longer subject to the law. Therefore we are not bound by worldly outcomes or things that affect others in the world but we are bound by faith: believing that we are attaining our rightful places even though we may not yet see the evidence of such. We are living above the law!!!!

We are all children of God by faith in Christ as through baptism we are clothed with Christ. So as I belong to Christ I am a seed of Abraham and a partaker to the promise of blessings which are activated by Faith.

So these are the 10 things I learnt from Galatians Chapter 3. Please read it also and let me know what you learnt.

VirtuousKelly
xxx

Album Review: CeCe Winans Throne Room

2011-09-27T01:19:00.000-07:00

Hello People,

How did your weekend go? Mine was full of cooking and wedding planning: Not for me but for my friend True Glam. Don't worry when it's my turn y'all would know(*big grin*)

As part of my new agenda for this blog I would be letting you all in on albums that have blessed me. From the oldies to the newbies (to tell you the truth I know more oldies than newbies. It's like I'm still stuck in the early 90's and the beginning of the new Millenium)

Today's post will be the first of such posts and our Album for today is CeCe Winans Throne Room

I first listened to this album in 2004/2005 although the album was released in September 2003. Prior to this I had listened to the Winans family since I was a kid. I also loved to listen to her and her brother BeBe. However there was something about this particular album that changed my attitude to worship.

Taken from her original biography this is what CeCe had to say:

'Worship is probably my favorite kind of music. For some time, I’ve really felt like God was telling me to record a very special project that would encourage people to worship. As I was completing the new record deal with Epic, I told them, ‘I’ve got to do this worship album before I can do anything else.’ It may make no natural sense to do this record right now in my career, but for the past two years I have had confirmation after confirmation that this is absolutely the right time. I know it’s all in God’s timing, and it’s what He wants me to do right now. If you are a worshipper this project will take you there, and if you’re not it will certainly give you peace.'

I can not begin to tell you how true her words are with regards to encouraging others to worship because this album totally changed my outlook to worship. I have a new found respect/awe for moments whereby I just put the CD in my player or listen to it on my phone anywhere either at home or on the bus or on the train. Wherever I am it feels like I am translated into a purified atmosphere and I am blocked out of the whole drama of life. Trust me I am not exaggerating you need to try it.

For a long time I only had this album on my iPhone but recently I went on a hunt for the CD on Amazon and got it for a good price.

Songs on the album include:

Hallelujah To The King (Intro),Jesus, You're Beautiful(One of my favourites),Throne Room,How Great Thou Art(I heart this hymn),You're So Holy(First few times I heard this track I always used to tear up as in God is truly Holy),Oh Thou Most High (One of the hymns I love. CeCe should be my best friend),By Thy Blood (Worthy is the Lamb),Hallelujah to the King,Thirst For You,Come Fill My Heart (I love this song. It reminds me that I am nothing without God and with Him dwelling on the inside of me I can do anything and be everything He wants me to be),Mercy Said No (Dedicated to Ronald Winans),All In Your Name,No One Else,Hallelujah Praise,Just Like You Jesus and
A Heart Like Yours

16 tracks make up this wonderful album and I am so sure it will bless you. If you are looking to update your gospel collection and you don't have this yet please make this your next purchase. I am sure it will bless you too.

P.S. Don't forget to drop your comments on your experience here.

Enjoy
VirtuousKelly

References:

CeCe Winans official Biography

Feature Post (Tyger of Tygernity)

2011-09-21T01:54:00.000-07:00

Hello lovely people of Blogsville

I hope the middle of the week has met you well, hail and hearty...

In this new era (Yes this blog is in a new era) I have decided to feature blog posts of friends who have inspired me.

The first of a few will be from my very own Tyger

People may not understand the relationship I have with her. She inspires me in so many ways, she's been more than a friend and has become a sister to me. I can speak to her about anything and she shares my views on most if not all things and is the most enterprising young lady I know. She is also my personal stylist and can be yours too. You can visit her style blog here and her everyday blog here

Now here's one of her recent posts that truly hit me and got me thinking on friendship. Enjoy!!!!

VirtuousKelly
xxx

A harsh truth I have been forced to learn in the short time I have been on this earth is that my friends are few... very few and it will do me good to remember.

A preacher once said at a program - go through life making as many friends as possible and as few enemies as possible.

Unfortunately I disagree with this preacher who is simply saying go through life as a people pleaser. To do this, you will pick every phone call, say yes to every favour, listen to every whine and rant, run yourself ragged to please people to make friends... you might have 1000 facebook friends, and 2000 twitter followers; but it doesn’t mean you have 3000 friends or even 1000 friends; your friends are few whether you know it or not.

If you think you have very few enemies, you are either far away from success or very deluded... infact you are merely deluded, because even if you are far away from success, you might not have a lot of enemies but your friends are still few... very few, simply because you are not successful. What do you have to offer in your lack of success? You are a potential burden, you are likely to ask for help... a lot.... and for these reasons, your friends will be few.

So you are someone who never says no to people, you are here to help! What are friends for? Yes, you will have a lot of "seeming" friends who in truth are using you, you have been marked as the “go-to” guy, the friend who will always say yes... no they are not your friends, they are your handlers and you are the mark; you will loan out or give away money, clothes, your car, your home, your CV, your time, any and everything...and they know this.

Perhaps you are someone who goes through life eyes wide open, who refuses to be used and is focused, with a plan and a destination, people will hate you for the simple fact that you are practical and true to who you are, for refusing to be used, for knowing what you want and remaining focused... refusing to be derailed. It means you will say no to those who want to come and live in your house for 6 months with their 3 children, you will say no to people who want to use your credit card for their business; it means you will say no to that huge loan that will obviously not be repaid... and for this you will be well disliked and your friends will be few.

If you are successful or on a clear path to success in some form or the other, your friends will be few and your enemies many; your so-called friends will quietly dislike you for trying to be successful or being successful. Don’t worry they will still be the first to click “like” on all your facebook pictures and to say “you look fantastic” on that picture where you have spinach between your teeth... but they will hate your guts and root for you to fall down on your face – in their heads they are saying “arrogant idiot! Is he (she) the only one? let him (her) even fall down on his (her) face, so he (she) can know what it feels like” – like you have never fallen down before... but they have forgotten... what is key now is that you are successful and or happy and that is not okay so your friends are few... very few.

This post of mine might sound brutal and cynical... even a little paranoid but in my opinion it is a truth I have been forced to learn and your nice comments and friendly follows don’t fool me.

You can choose to go through life pleasing the world, granting favours that will break your back, cost you your job or your home or your marriage or your peace of mind – it is your choice.

But keep in mind that it doesn’t matter how nice you are or how fantastic you are, your real friends will always be few and it will do you good to remember it.
If you don’t succeed - your friends will be few because you are not a success. If you do succeed - your friends will be few because you are so successful, either way - your friends will be few - even the great Julius Caesar had a Brutus close by.

Life: A Learning Process

2011-09-19T06:01:00.000-07:00

(Thinking to myself: this post title is a bit too deep hia!!!)

Hello people!!!!

I hope you all had a wonderful weekend. Mine was fine. The highlight was that my ibeji(twin)Dami had her wedding introduction on Sunday and although I was a bit late for the mains, I was glad I was part of the beginning of my darling's new life.

Anyway back to why we are here:

Of late I have been going through a phase of learning experiences (my twitter people have become tired of me I'm sure)

I am learning and gaining insight on so many issues in this life that I have decided to share. It may be new to some while it may just be a reminder to others. So here it goes;

1: I am learning to allow people be irritating/upset/annoying when they want to be.
(Yes I know this may be awkward but its true. You can't control another's moods so when they start just give them space)

2: I am learning to look and observe. I CAN NOT advice the world.

3: I am learning to take time out to be totally calm and quiet. One's spirit needs serenity regularly (Philippians 4:7 And the peace that transcends all understanding will guard your HEARTS and MINDS in Christ Jesus)

4: I am learning to be prudent. Being Prudent is the way forward

5: I am learning not to get upset over little things. Don't sweat the small stuff

6: I'm learning not to take up more than I can handle so as not to disappoint.
(This one is for me)

7: I am learning to accept that all fingers not being equal represents difference and uniqueness. I am me for a reason.

8: I'm learning to pick out and know my true friends. I need a good support system not a draining system.

9: I am learning to accept that I am not as tough as others or soft as some. I am who I am.

10: I am learning to say a little pray frequently. Piling up and spilling out does not give me room to hear from God.

11: I am learning that support does not come by words alone but also by action (I know someone who is smiling while reading this)

12: I am learning that in my relationship it's not about me or about my partner but about God. (Deep stuff oh. Single ladies visit Purposefully Single and sign up for the devotional and daily prayer plan. It'll be worth your while.)

13: I'm learning that to pass the test one has to go through a learning session no matter how hard it may seem.

14: I'm learning how to have a listening ear. Listen when spoken to not speaking over.

15: I'm learning that consistency in doing good always has a reward. Though it tarries it will surely come

16: I am learning how to manage certain situations without blowing my top off.
(I say to myself: Kelly remember #iAmPatienceVirtue#

17: I'm learning that certain things can't be forced. If there is nothing to say don't speak. If there is peace don't look for tension.

18: I'm learning that people have moods. It's not every time they want to play or are chirpy: allow them to be.

19: I'm learning not to assume too quickly. Assumptions are not always right.

20: I'm learning not to get upset when I don't have my way and take it that there's always a next time.

Yes people these are some of the things I've learnt and I'm still learning. Please share things you have learnt as well.

Enjoy you week people

VirtuousKelly
xxx

Covers

2011-09-12T04:47:00.000-07:00

Hello People!!!

Hope you all had a fabulous weekend?

Mine was good. Went for a wedding (ooh I love weddings) with Tyger and we had a whole lot of fun especially when the live band started playing.

Anyway...Prior to that on Friday I was having a really bad day. I mean the kind of day when your body just doesn't want to do anything, you want to lie in and watch all your favourite tv series (i'm not lazy oh I just like to lie in sometimes *insert what's app not interested smiley*)

Ok back to the gist

Anyway at work I was draggy and all and by the middle of the day I was having a bad headache and was running a temperature and feeling feverish. Before I go further let me let you in on what I do currently and where I work.

Ok I am the personal assistant to a medical Director who runs his own practice on Harley Street. It's a good job but I am believing God for a better job within the legal field. The building where I work in has different consultants in it with their admin staff which includes practice managers,secretaries and PA's. I happen to work in all three capacities (yes I am a very valuable member of this organisation :-)]

Ok back to the story (I digress a lot o). On Friday I just did not feel right. Like I was coming down with something. Lo and behold one of the female Consultant's saw me and said she wanted to see me in her office. I mean Consultant O(this is what I shall call her) took me into a consulting room took my temperature did a check and all and asked me questions and diagnosed some tablets for me. I'm sure you are wondering what the big deal is ba? Let me tell you.

Consultant O is always being talked about as the stiff one. She's not helpful, shes all about the money bla bla and unfortunately I had built this heard persona about her and never really given her a chance to prove otherwise. But her action of friday and the way she was concerned about my well being was very shocking to me and I was disappointed in myself for judging her based on other's opinion without finding out myself. God forgive me.

A lot of us are like me. We see certain people and create covers (I have noticed people don't like to use the word JUDGING. I have chosen to fine tune it so y'all who fall into the category but choose not to accept it will still be caught under this). We hear certain things about people swallow them up and automatically create a cover for the person being labelled. Most times (I admit not all the time) these covers are false.

When the Jews were expecting the Messiah they didn't expect him to come from Nazareth: Oh no Nazareth of all places...imagine hia tufiakwa (Ok kelly remember suppress the drama queen syndrome)

Lo and behold because of His place of birth and the fact that they were expecting more they created a cover for him and chose not to believe he was(and is) the son of God.

After Friday I am learning not to create a cover for anyone. Even if I am told the person is a fraudster or killer I'll try (yes try) not to create a cover for them. Do you know how many relationships or business partnerships or friendships that would have been positive to or beneficial to a lot of us if given a chance? But these opportunities may have been lost due to creating covers. So sad.

Prayer:
'Lord please help me not to create a cover for anyone. Help me to have an open mind that accepts everyone for who they are. If I per chance feel attitudes or characteristics are not pleasing or palatable to me Lord help me not to cast stones but act in a manner that lovingly reflects who you are in me. Amen'

xxx
VirtuousKelly

A quick one

2011-09-08T06:55:00.000-07:00

Don't worry

I am not over excited at re-running the blog that I am putting two posts up in a day
(Yes I know that's what you were thinking :-)]

Anyway I never knew that running something as simple as a blog (in my own opinion) could be so difficult. I mean before going through the different designs and templates and background options, I was looking prim and proper. You should see me now: my formerly packed hair is down, my head is aching, I have this I am confused and tired look on...well you get the point. The annoying part is I could have made my life easier by picking up the phone and calling my sister to tell me what to do.

This reminds me of how we are stuck in different life situations and we feel we can figure it all out by ourselves. We go around in circles, stress ourselves and eventually breakdown (If we get to that point).

Sometimes I wonder when I'm going round in circles if God is looking at me and shaking his head going: 'Why is this girl stressing herself' (yes I have those kind of thoughts too)..

We (me included) need to learn how not to use God as a last resort. After going through the thorny rose bush coming out with bruises and panting for air (ok Kelly thats enough) we then go 'Ah God Dey' and then run to God.

May God forgive me(you said it too right?).

May I always remember that God is my ONLY answer.

AOD (This person will be discussed on another day) sent me a text the other day as a reminder and since then I constantly tell myself the same thing everyday:

Jeremiah 33:3- Call to Me and I will answer you, and I will tell you great and mighty things, which you do not know.

Well I guess a lot of us have to do a lot of calling eh? Whatever it is never put Him as a last resort

Selah
VirtuousKelly

Hello: I am back!!!!!

2011-09-08T06:11:00.000-07:00

Ok

I am really sorry

One just gets carried away sometimes....

But now I am back and I promise that I will try my best to post regularly.

My New Agenda:

Shorter posts but much more inspiring

I am going to go a bit personal now i.e. Different happenings in my life will be featured in posts

More discussions on different topics that crop up...

Having fun while blogging

So there it is guys. I promise to do my best to put a post up every week.

I sincerely hope you are blessed and ministered to through what my mind carries.

I remain yours
Patience Virtue

What do you see in 2011?

2011-01-05T04:27:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year Folks!!!!

The year has already started in earnest for most people. I for one, I'm back at work and thrown back into reality. If you are not back at work well enjoy the rest of the days you have....lol

Nevertheless, most of us have mapped out how our year is going to be. Holidays have been planned, wedding plans being made, courses that need to be taken...the list is endless.

However in our busyness of getting ready to sort out 2011, lets not forget who made it possible for us to get to 2011. Let us appreciate our God at every step.

Apart from the Hullabaloo of life 'What do you really see in 2011 ?'

This year let us try and open our spiritual eyes to see past what the physical lays in front of us. Are there carry over blessings/prayers from last year that you have been believing God for? Do you see yourself walking in that dimension? We ought not to limit what our eyes can see concerning God's promises for our lives.

Habakkuk 2:3 'For the revelation awaits an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it; It will certainly come and will not delay.'

God has given each of us the ability as believers to see beyond what life throws at us. This is what we call 'REVELATION'. Revelations equals to revealed information which in turn builds up our lives.

With this let us ask God for the spirit of revelation in 2011 to see beyond what life offers us and throws at us...

From a lawyer's point of view,An offer remains an offer until it is accepted...once accepted it becomes a binding contract.

Don't accept the offer the world gives: Accept the revelation God gives to you.

Have a blessed week

Yours Truly
Patience Virtue

ThankFulNess

2010-12-28T02:42:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas y'all. I hope you all had a fantastic day and have recovered from the food shock...lol

I have a little confession to make. I wasn't in a very christmasy mood this Christmas. For some reason I was just on the down low. I kept wondering what the problem was and I prayed and asked God to deliver me from any spirit of heaviness.

It then occurred to me that sometimes we allow the devil through heaviness take over the reason for us being happy. I mean that day alone was the only day that had been set aside specially for me to appreciate the birth of my Master and friend so seriously what was my problem?

My problem was that I was not being: Thankful

Psalm 100:4 urges us to Enter God's gates with Thanksgiving....
In other words, being thankful pleases the Master

For a second take time and look back on 2010 and pick out scenarios and instances when you know fully well that it was only God who delivered you from the mess, the lack, the fear, the shame, the muddle...

Its all coming back isn't it?

Yes if there is anything I, Patience Virtue, is grateful for is that my God has kept me hail and hearty till now and its not by any good deed on my part but by His GRACE

My darlings, take time today and be thankful. Do not let flimsy things, situations set backs take away your ultimate assignment as a believer. Lay aside every weight and just say:

LORD I AM GRATEFUL

Being thankful is our code to unlocking the gates of heaven and releasing our blessings.

As we round up this beautiful 2010: please be ThAnkFul

Yours Truly,

Patience Virtue

PS. Used this to appreciate my God and Master...I am very Grateful Lord....THANK YOU

No Copyright Intended

True Worship

2010-11-24T12:20:00.000-08:00

Hello Darlings

Of a truth our God reigns and is still in the business of doing miracles.

Sometimes I sit down and wonder where I would be if not for the grace, mercy and favour of our God. Our God is great.

God has a way of showing up when you are getting to that point where you feel you are letting go of everything: sanity, emotions, feelings, life's worth. He steps in and shows Himself strong and mighty.

God is never too early and never too late He is the ON TIME God.

I just want to use this opportunity and invite you as well to sit down and ponder on the things God has done for you in the past up till this very moment...

Yes...that breakthrough; Thank Him for it
Yes...that promotion; Thank Him for it
Yes...that healing; Thank Him for it
Yes...that divine acceleration; Thank Him for it
Yes...that provision/increase; Thank Him for it
Yes...that deliverance; Thank Him for it

I could go on and on and I wouldn't stop.

I just want you to use this opportunity to say thank you to God and give Him true worship for who He is, what He has done, what He is doing and what He is yet to do.

Yours Truly
Patience Virtue

Give Him pure undiluted Worship:

(No copyright intended)

Walk With Me

2010-10-22T02:16:00.000-07:00

Hello Darlings,

Of late, I have been jolted out of my sleep at very early times in the morning. One day it was at 2:38am, the next it was 5:15am and last night it was 3:05am.

Now this is a bit disturbing as it is usually not that easy for me to get back to sleep once I'm up. When I'm up I go on twitter and tweet with my 'twitfam' if any is awake. However in a corner of my mind I'm wondering whether I was jolted up for a reason.

On the first two occasions, prophetic songs came to me which I continuously sang till I drifted off to blissful sleep. But yesterday was different. Yesterday I heard the still voice of My Master and My Best-friend. He said to me: Walk with me.

At first I was a bit mesmerized. I was shocked as I know I had been naughty for a while.I had started losing focus on who I truly was and what I stood for. The first thing that popped into my mind after that was when God called Abraham: He told him to: Walk with Him and DO WHAT WAS RIGHT....

That really is what God wants from us. He is not asking for too much. Just for us to walk with Him. A number of times we have the tendency to stray away from the path on which we and God are walking on. This is because pressures of life may throw you to places you never expected to be in and it seems as if you are trying to set a balance between what you want now and what you know God will eventually give you if you trust in Him.

This realisation hit me so bad I had to run back to God for forgiveness. I want to walk with Him no matter the situation. No matter the pressure; no matter the pain. Even when the problems and issues get so hard to bear I still want to Walk with God. The hymn says: 'When we Walk with the Lord in the light of His word; what a glory He sheds on our way'

Yes there is a glory and I want to have a piece of that glory to.Remember the three Hebrew guys: Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego...They made up their minds to walk with God and held onto Him even in the face of impending death. God delivered them from the fiery furnance and Nebuchadnezzar said:

'Blessed be the God of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego! He sent His angel and rescued His servants who trusted Him.' Daniel 3:28.

I have made up my mind to walk with God and trust Him irrespective of any situation I find myself in. I have decided to hold on to Him and be a partaker of the glory of walking with Him. Do the same today.

God bless you

Patience Virtue.

Smoke

2010-09-28T12:42:00.000-07:00

Hello Darlings,

Sometimes if not most of the time we over work not our physical bodies but our mental state.

I do understand that it's not our fault as we live in a world where the pressures of life can be so overwhelming that you can not help but think continuously/ponder on matters which have passed, are present and are yet to come.

But stop!!!!! Take a moment to relax and enjoy the present. You have learnt from your past so why not anticipate enjoying the future. Its easier said than done I know but what is there to lose.

I used to worry a lot. On average I'm sure I worried ten times more than someone of my age. I will continuously ponder on things that should have been, should be and ought to be. The whole mind racket made me worry like no man's business. One day it all occurred to me while reading The Message version of Ecclesiastics 1:2 that all the worrying was for nothing.

If the wisest man on earth who had everything he wanted: riches, women, kingdoms...you name it, had it all said all the chasing around was for nothing...The Message version calls 'nothing' Smoke

I mean I had to laugh when I read it...smoke...what is smoke...nothing...

In the blink of an eye all of life's troubles and searches where reduced to one word 'SMOKE'

So with all of life's troubles try and relax...

Take time to breathe in the fresh air

Take time to appreciate where you are and accept where you've come from in order to be ready for where you are going to.

Don't take things to heart too easily...Try and learn from the wisest man that ever lived:

AVOID SMOKE !!!!!!

Yours Truly

Patience Virtue

2010-09-08T03:41:00.001-07:00

Hello Blessed People,

I have had this piece up on my Facebook page for a while now and just decided to share it here as well. I have this piece up in my room and try to read it everyday. They are just little pointers to remind us of how to live life and enjoy life in the most stress free way...I got it from an email that was sent to me. I hope it helps you as much as it has helped me...

An Angel says, 'Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice.'

1. Pray
2. Go to bed on time.
3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.
4. Say No to projects that won't fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health
5. Delegate tasks to capable others.

6. Simplify and unclutter your life.
7. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)
8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.
9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don't lump the hard things all together.
10. Take one day at a time.

11. Separate worries from concerns . If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you do and let go of the anxiety . If you can't do anything about a situation, forget it.
12. Live within your budget; don't use credit cards for ordinary purchases.
13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.
14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut). This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.
15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.

16. Carry a Bible with you to read while waiting in line.
17. Get enough rest.
18. Eat right.
19 Get organized so everything has its place.
20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life.

21. Write down thoughts and inspirations.
22. Every day, find time to be alone. REPEAT...every day, FIND time to be alone.
23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot. Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don't wait until it's time to go to bed to try and pray.
24. Make friends with Godly people
25. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand.

26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good 'Thank you Jesus .'
27. Laugh.
28. Laugh some more!
29. Take your work seriously, but not yourself at all.
30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).

31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).
32. Sit on your ego.
33 Talk less; listen more.
34. Slow down.
35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.

36 Every night before bed, think of one thing you're grateful for that you've never been grateful for before. GOD HAS A WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU.

'If God is for us, who can be against us?'

(Romans 8:31)

Forever Yours,
Patience Virtue

Brighter and Lovelier Days

2010-09-01T04:00:00.000-07:00

Hello Darlings,

I am sorry for the break in transmission. So many things happening. School, projects, searching for a job...the whole works...

However I am grateful to God for keeping you all in peace and in good health.

Over a period of time I have been observing the scenes of life as I go about my daily routine. It's amazing how you can get on the bus and you feel the tension in the air as everyone is thinking about one thing or the other. You sense the stress, tiredness and unease on your way to work, at work and on your way from work.

The whole thing got me thinking one Sunday morning while I was on the bus to church. I realised that one of the reasons why we have so much unrest is because we have lost focus on who gives us peace. We have deviated from the very essence of our peace and have allowed our days to be clouded by black and greys and not brighter colours.

Yes,life throws stuff at us and makes us feel there is nothing more to hope for. But remember you have a God who will never fail you. Look up to Him the author and finisher of your faith. Things may be dragging and every other person may seem to be advancing but hold on; don't let go of Him and He'll definitely come through:

Habakkuk 2:3 For the revelation awaits an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay.

Your Brighter day is here...don't wait for it in the mood you are in: feeling down, low and depressed. Wait for it with excitement and anticipation and with faith that He who began a good work in you will be faithful to complete it.

Have a blessed day
Yours Truly
Patience Virtue

Outcomes!!!

2010-06-29T10:43:00.000-07:00

Life has a way of dishing out circumstances and situations to you that you never bargained for. Everyone of us or at least most of us have had our lives mapped out one way or the other till a certain point but have had to re-adjust our settings to fit circumstances that may have altered them. Some of these circumstances are good while some are rather unfortunately, bad and may throw you into a state of dis-array, hurt and much more. However, sometimes circumstances which are thrown at us are backdrops to places and spheres we actually ought to be in life. This is what I have termed as OUTCOMES.

As Christians, we are taught and led by the spirit to leave everything to God and also involve Him in our plans. This is ultimately true as my motto in life is: Let Go and Let God as really there is nothing much more we can really do than that which we have already tried to do. Also how we react to this circumstances and situations thrown to us by life's winds which alters things in our lives is very important. As a daughter/Son of zion, your attitude, behaviour and reaction to such situations are being watched by all. So how then are we to carry ourselves into the OUTCOMES which are to propel us to our pre-destined positions in this life? Here are a few tips the holy spirit laid on my heart a few moments ago.

1. Learn to love yourself the way you and at the point you are at:

This is the problem a lot of us are facing at this present time. The high to always want to be at a stage where our other peers are at can hinder or distort the course our OUTCOMES are supposed to take. Just because one person has walked a thousand miles and you have walked five hundred does not make you a lesser person. The bible says: The race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favor to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all. [Ecclesiastes 9:11] . I can't begin to count how many times I recite this verse in a day. I have felt confused and very much upset at times when I feel I deserve something and it has been handed over to another who I know did not go through half of what I went through. This verse was laid on my spirit and has taught me that each and everyone is running a different race: hence the race not being for the swift. It is how well you run your race that matters not how fast.

2. Attitude:

Your attitude speaks before you and says a lot about you. Please darlings lay aside the jealousy, envy and hate. It doesn't look good on a child of the kingdom or anyone for that matter. Stop holding on to grudges and letting them rule you. Have a forgiving spirit. Its not easy to forgive not to talk of forgetting. I have currently gone through a phase whereby I feel that holding on to certain hurts are not worth it. I tell myself, no matter how painful or upsetting the situation may be, that there was a reason for God allowing the hurt to happen. It sounds a bit out of place but it has totally worked for me. Its not easy to release grudges but the thing folks fail to realise about grudges is that it eats into you and hinders you from receiving pure happiness you are entitled to. I mean who doesn't want to be happy. I'll rather let you go than allow you still ruin my happiness. I mean its like loosing both ways which is extremely unnecessary. Let your attitude speak well for you and you will see it makes a whole lot of difference having an enchanting and acceptable attitude while journeying into your OUTCOME.

3. Pray:

I can not over-emphasise this enough. I have currently gone through a serious prayer rejuvenation that it feels as if when I don't pray I'm not complete. How do I explain this? It feels like when you are in love and the other party does not share the same sentiments any more and you feel like a part of you has been cut off, that's how I feel when I don't pray. The wonderful thing about prayer is the peace it brings. I am amazed as to how quickly this peace comes. When I have a problem the first thing I say sub-consciously is 'Holy Spirit, Help me!'. Its as simple as that and I feel a sudden re-assurance that I am not alone. Phillipians 4:6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.. This verse is absolutely powerful and so true. If Christ has made such an offer why not make the most of it. I'm tired of hearing people complain about one thing or the other and when I ask 'have you prayed?' silence takes the order of the day. Trust me sometimes it is hard to pray especially if the pain is so much that it seems prayer is not enough. I have recently realised that that is a lie of the devil. There is nothing prayer can not solve. You may not get an answer immediately, or the answer you want but an answer will come all the same. So in getting to that OUTCOME I encourage you to pray.

4. Speak words of life and strength into your life: BE POSITIVE:

I can understand that sometimes being positive is hard. I used to be formally known as the QUEEN LADY OF PESSIMISM but I thank God that I am being delivered from it all. The problem with negativity is that it makes you one sided and this can be very frustrating and I mean very very frustrating. You do not give a chance to see the other side of things which is truly a better side of things. You lock yourself up in a mental battle as if to obliterate any manner of good happening in a situation. Please with all things being well and good, try and look at the other side of the coin. Not all things are as they seem. Try and believe that there is still some good in this world and once you believe it you will see it.

Stop downing yourself. You are not the first person to go through that bump in the road. I believe I am as organised as it gets.A while back I had drafted a perfect plan for myself. Education, career and relationship wise. All of a sudden of late everything seems to be going into utter dis-array. At first when I noticed it, I began to hyper-ventilate, then I began to crash like a computer system. Then thankfully God restored my prayer routine/mode and everything began to seem a little bit brighter. It became much better when I began to speak to myself and encourage myself. I usually say this: I reject depression, inferiority complex and self pity. I uproot sorrow and heaviness now in the name of Jesus. I accept congratulations and reject sorry for my day and my life. There is sooooo much power in the tongue it is unbelievable. And in saying it you have to believe it. Its not going to be if you only say it. Speak it into existence by believing it already exists. That's why Hebrews 11:1 Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.

These are just a few things I can right down at the moment. Work with it and let me know how it works. I believe by God's grace everything which occurs to push you to your OUTCOME will be a stepping stone to propel you to your destiny and would be a journey that will draw you closer to Him who knows all and permits all.

Keep holding on to his word

Yours sincerely

Patience Virtue.

My Greatest Life Experience

2010-06-01T14:16:00.000-07:00

Hello People,

This is a short piece that was dropped on my mind a few seconds ago. I hope you enjoy it.

As I sit outside my room, the evening breeze is a bit chilly but warm enough to allow me think and ponder over situations I have experienced and people I have come across in my last year outside my natural habitat.

'Changing Location is not easy'

That's what I always used to hear. But I am forever grateful to God for bringing me out here to the 'not so city not so country side'. It has brought me in contact with different kinds of people from different spheres and works of life.

It has made me see life in a more serene and relaxed way. I can think without having doubts as to what things are. I can see and not misinterpret.

It has brought me closer to my 'FIRST LOVE'
My God, my Lover and my Friend.

I speak with Him daily. He upholds me through every nasty, stinking and upsetting situation. I can speak to Him at any time and love on Him whenever I want to.

I walk through the park and I feel His presence. In speaking to people He tells me what to say. He has given me the gift I always wanted. The peace I always needed. He has revealed to me the secrets of inner, silent strength for my life.

He is my greatest Life experience. I knew Him before but not in the way I know Him now. I can go on and on on how He has been good to me:

He is my Jehovah Jireh: My provider when I'm in need
He is my Jehovah Nissi: My banner when I need protection
He is my Jehovah Rapha: My healer when I am sick
He is my Jehovah Shammah: My God who is always there to save me from trouble
He is my Jehovah Shalom: My God who gives me peace through every storm.

So when people ask me how I'm coping with the change: irrespective of everything going on around, I reply heartily

'The change is good as it has done me well. It has brought me back to my First Love'

I've come back to my First Love:
He wants to come back to you too. Just open your heart and receive Him

Yours Truly
Patience Virtue

The Importance of Prayer

2010-05-31T09:20:00.000-07:00

A short Prayer:

Thank you Jesus for such an opportunity to share what you have laid on my heart with your people. I thank you because as they are ministered to, you will show up strong and mighty in every situation they may be facing. Show them Lord that you are the mighty God who fetches water with a basket to disgrace the bucket...Thank you Jesus...

Over the past month I have been re-introduced into a whole new dimension on what prayer can do in a believers life. Therefore you can take my account as first hand gist and experience or better still using the well known expression: this account is gotten from the Horse's mouth.

I was in one of those moods whereby you think of everything going on around you. The busyness of it all and you are searching for some peace and tranquillity. Have you ever wondered like me why everything seems to go on well for others around you even though most of the time the others around you don't have the same faith or moral standing as you? Yes I know what just popped into your minds: Don't compare yourself to others...True, word!!!!!!!!!!!!!

However that's where we ought to call the spirit in. This is because fleshy thinking can lead us to depression, self pity and also a hint of inferiority complex may set in. In order to tap into the spirit and be set aside from fleshy thinking the bible encourages us in Phillipians 4 v 6: not to fret or have any anxiety about anything, but in every circumstance and in everything, by prayer and petition (definite requests), with thanksgiving, continue to make your wants known to God.

Now what say you my learned friends: when such an offer has been made to you why not make the most use of it. This verse was given to us by El Shaddai specifically because Ephesians 6 v 12:For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Of late I have experienced first hand that before things happen in the physical they have usually already taken place in the spirit. That is why it seems everything goes well for a long while and then at a point BOOM everything then seems to start going down hill. Whatever happened, happened in the spirit first before revealing itself in the physical. That is why we have been ordered in 1st Thessalonians 5:17 to: Pray without CEASING.

Now let me take you through my journey with my greatest and 'bestest' lover: The Ancient of days, The lily of the Valley and The rose of Sharon: God Almighty.

Morning Prayer: I have a new devotional I have been using for the past few months and to God be the Glory it has blessed me tremendously: Our Daily Manna by Rev. (Dr) Chris Kwakpovwe. It also has an accompanying prayer book: Prayer Bullets for Winners (War Against Haman)by the same author.

Prior to my newly revived love for prayer,my morning prayer used to be very serene. Up from bed I quickly mumble through my 'thank you Jesus for another day' routine. It became one of the things I had to do everyday as part of my to do list. I can't really remember adding any sort of great importance to it. Don't get me wrong I meant every word in my prayer but it just didn't feel easy. I thank God for where I am now because all that has changed. I wake up in the morning and I can't wait to start my prayers. I don't rush I just have a long talk with my father who sits on the throne and watches over my affairs. Psalm 88v13:But I, O LORD, have cried out to You for help, And in the morning my prayer comes before You.

I have observed that committing your day into the hands of the One who created it works wonders...really I am not exaggerating. When we wake up every morning it is a gift and not something we are freely entitled to by right. So why not dedicate it to Him. Many things had happened the night before in the spirit which ought to be counteracted in the first few minutes or hours of rising. Usually I commit my day into God's hands. My life, family, career, academics and relationships into His hands. I prophesy blessings into my life and family. I ask for me to meet Godly individuals and pray against wasters, blockers, suckers, emptier's and users of my destiny. This prayer is specifically important because not everyone you meet with or smile with is interested in your progress or happy with your present position. Therefore it is important to fortify yourself spiritually.

Also loosing productivity, fruitfulness and uncommon wisdom into my life and my family for the day is very important. This is because everyday is a day which ought to be enjoyed to the fullest. God has so much blessings in store for us to enjoy in each day so we have to make the most of it.

Afternoon Prayers: These are more subtle as I usually meditate on the Psalms and prophesy the verses into my day, life and family. Some Psalms I pray with are: Psalm 133, 84, 71,20,25,91,126,141,93,5,27,59,121,140

Night Prayers: I remember when I was younger, my family used to have evening devotions as opposed to morning devotions most of my friends at school had. This taught me that in ending your day, you always have to thank your creator, the one who gave you the day and in thanking Him for the day you are surrendering it back to Him.

Psalm 74v16:Yours is the day, Yours also is the night; You have prepared the light and the sun.

Night prayers are usually more intense than morning or afternoon prayers. This is because it is in the night that most spiritual battles are fought Judges 7v19: So Gideon and the hundred men who were with him came to the outskirts of the camp at the beginning of the middle watch, when they had just posted the watch; and they blew the trumpets and smashed the pitchers that were in their hands.

Commit your day to Him and ask Him to correct any errors you might have made that may hinder the blessings He has in store for you. Ask for your night to be covered by the blood and that angels on assignment go out and fight for you and on your behalf. Wherever any evil has been or will be discussed concerning you must be disgraced and brought to fruitlessness. Ask Him to show up in those areas of you life that need strengthening and peace.

Question: Has this worked?
Answer: 100%.

I am a true testimony that praying continuously and at every opportunity works. First you feel lighter like all the weight has been lifted off. Secondly, you have this peace in you that everything is going to work out irrespective of things that are happening around you. Thirdly, you fill fulfilled and protected.

I can not begin to explain the miracles I have received. My faith has been revived and I have experienced the presence of God in a whole new dimension. Its like one minute I'm down the next minute I feel great because the Holy Spirit has ministered to me in one way or the other. It's amazing.

Faith is also very necessary as well when it comes to prayer. Remember
Hebrews 11v1:Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see

Hebrews 11v6: And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.

Give prayer a chance in your life. You will definitely experience what I feel on a regular basis. I will advise that as part of your daily prayer plan you get yourself a good devotional. There are lots out there so take time to check out for one that you feel you can understand well enough.

Ok then I've given you my experience: Go find out about it.And congratulations in advance because your life is about to experience a change like never before.

Love you darlings,

Yours Truly,

Patience Virtue

Friendship!!!!

2010-05-25T05:23:00.000-07:00

Apologies for being absent for a while.....

Academic work took the better part of my time....

However in that time, I thank God for using little happenings to intimate me on issues which occur in our everyday life and how that later on affects us. Today's topic will be centred on friendship.

Friendship is the cooperative and supportive relationship between two or more people. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, affection, and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis....
(en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friendship)

I have had friends...trust me I'm a friend person...

However of late I have looked around and wondered whether the people I called friends are actually friends or just mere acquaintances. There is a huge difference. An acquaintance is someone you happen to know on a formal basis. The casual hello how are you person. Work colleagues, school colleagues and the likes.

However a friend is different. A friend is closer than an acquaintance. A friend is someone you can be real with and absolutely feel free with. I need you to take time and think about people in your life who you consider friends. Then create a mental sieve and separate who you can actually call a friend and who you would take as an acquaintance. Trust me if you have more than ten people on your friends list...you are one extremely lucky and good person. If you don't have up to ten friends under your friends list then don't worry it doesn't mean you are not a good person.

The essence of such a mental separation is to establish the people you can really hold on to in times when you need a helping hand or you want to let yourself go. However in order to have friends you have to be a friend. I have found that the book of proverbs gives a whole lot on the topic of friendship and these attributes will be discussed here. Remember Jesus Christ called the twelve His friends however one still betrayed Him. This did not mean that Jesus was not a friend it meant Judas was not a friend. We have been told in John 15 v 13 that greater love had no man than this that Christ laid down His life for His friends: now I know in this day and age it may be a bit extreme to lay your life down for someone else but can realistically can you think of someone or a category of people who you will be willing to lay down your life for: the first names that pop into your head are those you consider friends...

Being a friend is not easy. Like the parties to a male female relationship it is a full time job. You may laugh but it's true. Understanding is the first thing. Parties to a friendship have to understand each other. There is no basis to any friendship be it in the relationship aspect or not without the parties understanding each other...To me what's the point.

Communication: This is very essential. What people say to each other may easily be mis-interpreted.This is the main reason why relationships are broken because people fail to communicate effectively. A simply explanation solves a lot of issues. Proverbs 15 v 1: A gentle answer turns away wrath but a harsh word stirs up anger. If something is said and needs further explanation the receiver friend ought not to jump into a conclusive notion that it should be interpreted in the wrong way. The giver friend should also try to give their friend the information in such a manner as not to impute ideas into the others head. And if there's strife...Please and Please let peace reign. Try not to cause anything that will bring more strife or throw more salt on the injury.

Patience/Perseverance: This is my ultimate motto for this year and beyond to be patient. I do not in anyway want to hurt anybody and hinder my blessing from coming down from heaven. So if a friend says something to me that hurts me I choose not to react immediately and try not to take it too close to heart. I activate my patience gear on and relax. Then later in a more cheerful mood and not governed by the emotions of what I felt when the word was spoken I gently tell my friend how I felt and why I didn't take what was said as appropriate. This has helped a lot as most times we react to quickly to what has been said and don't get a chance to think of what has been said. This is what causes the issues/brawl to go on for longer.

Also when you have friends you know their strengths and abilities. For me I have a friend who when she gives advice she doesn't know how to give it in a way whereby she is not harsh. I mean that's her nature and in as much as I want her to be more understanding in giving criticisms I leave her to do as she is because that's what makes her her and I love her as that. Just because I am not that way doesn't mean her way is not right. For example, I was going through a trying period a few weeks ago and all she could say was that she had noticed I had been moody and that I shouldn't be and that I should know that sometimes she too goes through things...blah blah blah...

When she finished...I wanted to speak because I felt this is someone who should understand me for me. I am not her and I believe she shouldn't judge me on the basis of how she handles things. However the Holy Spirit laid it on my heart not to speak. I didn't and I let it go. Sincerely I think she was expecting a reply from me but I never gave it. This is what came to my mind: She does not know what I am going through so I shouldn't judge her for that. And from there I moved on. You know your friends so try to handle and manage their idiosyncrasies. Remember being patient and silent does not make you weak, it shows how strong you are to handle a situation.

Forgive and let go: Please just forgive and let go and let peace reign. its had but remember that Proverbs 10 v 12 says Love covers all wrongs and if you have a friend you ought to love them. Please half of the times when we hold on go little squabbles we can be enjoying the finer things of life...So please Let go and if it hurts talk to your friend after exercising patience and if your friend is truly your friend they would understand and share your sentiments. If not please leave it to God to be the one to sort it out....

People always remember Proverbs 18 v 24: A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

Yes go to Him who knows all for everything and please be a friend....

Love you all and it sure feels good to be back

Yours Truly
Patience Virtue

REJOICE!!!!!

2010-02-11T05:58:00.001-08:00

I can see the question that comes into mind (especially if you are going through a rough season in your life)is what is there to smile about? Theres a lot of suffering in the world: financially, politically, emotionally and physically ....So PLEASE WHAT IS THERE TO SMILE ABOUT?

1st Thessalonians 5 v 16: Be joyful always

Joyful: elated; full of high-spirited delight
(wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn)

1st Thessalonians 5 v 18: Give Thanks in ALL circumstances for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus

To Give Thanks: Showing appreciation and Gratitude
(en.wiktionary.org/wiki/thankful)

To some the meaning of these passages may not make any sense because we are hurting too much or too tired to see the sense in it. The world has made the word joy seem like a verb which only occurs when good things happen. When you buy a car, you have to be joyful. When you get married, its a joyous occassion and the endless list of moments when we ought to be joyful goes on. However what of those times when it seems 'inappropriate' to be joyful. For example, when you have been waiting for a promotion and suddenly it passes you by...Will you be grateful,thankful or Joyous? When the results you expected was not what you got and it seemed you were the only one out of your crew in that category...will you be grateful, thankful or joyous? When that breakthrough you have been praying for is about to go through and at its point of maturity it vanishes right before your very eyes...what do you do...?These are just some common areas which we experience in our daily lives.

I recently went through a set back and it hurt more than anything I have ever felt. I felt alone and this crippling fear of rejection and not being able to match up to standard engulfed me. It was not as if I hadn't prayed through it all or accorded myself any selfish praise but it just didn't work out for me. I felt crushed and I mean crushed. I didn't know what to do or how to feel. I began to cry. Not that crying helps but the pain was too much...I began to consider all the ridicule, the embarrasment....Lord why me I cried why me. I suddenly remembered a song I love...Donnie McClurkin's version of STAND...and I remembered what I was supposed to do...

You have to STAND up to that situation. No matter how traumatic it may be. After you have done all you can, all you can do is STAND... Why? Its not easy...you may be like me and cry, or get angry and look for someone to blame, or begin to harbour jealousy and spite...NO.... just STAND and watch the Lord see you through...Be sure in the Lord... All you need to do is endure that present season; God has a purpose; God has a plan...Do not give up through the storm or the rain. Do not bow to the situation, hold on and be strong; God will step in....Yes these are the words of the song but take a seat and meditate on it.

Is there a time the Lord has spoken and not kept to his word? God is not a man that He should lie neither is He the son of man that He should repent. I will rather rely and rest in the arms of my Lord than succumb more to the pressures of this world. If things have happened God must have allowed it...Why? Because He will neither leave me nor forsake me.The thoughts He has for me are of good and not of evil: Jeremiah 29:11 It is at this stage of STANDING that we should give thanks. The bible says in ALL things (yes I am saying all things) give thanks. It may be an inappropriate situation to give thanks in but yet still give thanks. Why? Because it could have been worse. For the person waiting for the promotion that passed by you, it could have been worse because you may not have had a job or worse still got fired....for the person with the resulyts which weren't expected, it could have been worse as you may have had to go through a resit or yet fail the entire course...for the person waiting for the breakthrough, it could have been worse if you were not even at the starting point and had nothing to aim for...

My analysis may seem far fetched or unrealistic, but as a christian, walking in the light and way of God and believing on His every word, I have decided that when set backs occur in my life I wil not be sober but give thanks to Him in advance for being gracious to me and allowing me not to have been in a worse position and thank Him in advance for that position I am aiming for.

It may be hard...but thats why we lean on Christ our solid rock. The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous run in and are safe. Whatever God has said about me in His word will be established in my life. Greater is He who is in me than he that is in the world. This should be our daily prayers.

A set back is not the end of the world. It is only the beginning of the next chapter to our life stories on how we were able to achieve our destinies in christ. I will always bless the Lord at all times...Because when the Praises go up, the blessings come down... Remember He will never put more on you than you can bear.... So in the clear words of Apostle Paul's letter to the Phillipians, chapter 4 v 4 Rejoice in the Lord Always and again I say REJOICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sometimes...But...Always

2010-02-01T21:17:00.000-08:00

Sometimes we get tired of Life and wonder what the true essence of it is...but

Always remember that you were created for a purpose...no one was brought here without a mission..strive to fulfill your mission

Sometimes we feel distressed and wonder why bad things happen to good people...sometimes it feels in the midst of a million people your all alone...but

Always remember you are never alone..Afterall If God be for you who can be against you...Being alone is a good thing sometimes...you get the time to reflect on issues that are bothering you and try to seek solutions to them

Sometimes it seems the closest persons to you hurt you most...when you need them they just seem no where to be found....but

Always remember that you have got family to back you up...there are friends that are always there through thick and thing...certain situations may show us who are friends really are.. friends who are always there are not classified as friends but family...

Sometimes it seems as if the target we set for ourselves are too high...we want this done by this, we want this thru by this...I want this to go this way....and when it seems we are drowning in our own high standards, we begin to loose hope...but

Always remember no standard is set too high...Do not compromise your position because you feel it is making you loose valuable time or connections...we are all created differently..some aim low while some are average...some, however, are destiny pushers and aim high they do not want to be associated with mediocrity...It all depends on your level of faith...God understands and knows when things will happen...Always remember...if Joseph had gone into the palace from the pit he was thrown into by his brothers, He would never have managed His position well..and who knows the story may have been different...

Sometimes it hurts to let go...you want to but it is hard..so many circumstances come in and just make it all the more worse...it may be a lost love, a sour relationship with a friend, a tragic experience that has left an imprint in your memory...but

Always remember that you get to live life only once...you can not get back any moment, second, minute, hour or day spent carrying all the burdens of life around...I know what you just thought...easier said than done right ?..true...its the person who wears the shoes who knows where it hurts the most...but the fact and truth stll remains...its easier to let go than to hold on too it..its less stressful and also less painful letting it go than keeping it in...

Sometimes its hard to love again...after a while you give up trying at all... and then you loose emotion, feeling and what not...you begin to shut down slowly like a computer system which is hanging...but

Always remember as hard as it may seem that the ultimate love comes from God...there is never a limit on love...you can never say you don't have enough love...there is always enough love to give...all you need to do is try and tap into you bank of love..no need for cheques, long lines and no fear of running into overdraft...theres no harm in trying again...it took the guy who made the light bulb so much failure to actually reach his success...And if the people/person you show love to abuse it...there's still more love to go round..remember..whatever you sow is what you reap...just make sure your steps are ordered before you love...and remember someone, somewhere out there is waiting to give you that love back in return...

(c) Kelechi Anyogu.

A new beginning

2010-01-31T11:57:00.000-08:00

Hello Everyone,

I'm pretty new at this so my apologies if I drift off or you lose me half way. I will try my best to enunciate to you what I feel on issues most of us experience everyday. This blog will be most useful to young guys and ladies in their late teens and relatively early-mid twenties...However this does not eliminate the older ones from adding to my views or even considering my thoughts...

Before I begin, I will like to write a short prayer which will introduce my blog for the day:

The Lord is my Pacesetter, I shall not rush;
He makes me stop and rest for quiet intervals.
He provides me with images of stillness,
which restores my serenity;
He leads me in the ways of efficiency through
calmness of mind
And His guidance is peace
Even though I have a great many things
to accomplish each day
I will not fret, for His presence is here
His timelessness, His all importance
will keep me in balance
He prepares refreshment and renewal in the midst of my activity,
By annointing my mind with His oils of tranquility.
My cup of joyous energy overflows,
Surely harmony and effectiveness shall be the fruits of my hours,
For I shall walk in the pace of my Lord, and dwell in His house forever.

(Culled from Toki Miyashina's rendition of Psalm 23)

My mother (God bless her) always used to tell me that my mind was always working 24/7 round the clock even in my sleep because I always had something on my mind. Now I am a young lady in her early twenties...I consider myself beautiful, intelligent and mature. However, sometime I tend to wonder about a lot of things: what will happen in the next two years; who will I marry; is my boyfriend cheating on me; I'm I going to have a great career;

Now I mean I am a young girl...most people will say I don't need to think of all these things, I should read my books...

This is true, However as young people we live in a world that begs us to consider our future...Usually we wouldn't have to do this as mumsy or popsy has our backs. But we have gotten to a stage whereby you have to make some decisions on your own. For example your future career. What do you want to do as a life ambition...what do you see yourself waking up every morning to do...what are your talents...

All these may sound a little too much if you think of it at one time. But the truth of the matter is that it still stays there whether you thik of it or not.

Next comes the relationships: Both with the same sex and the opposite sex. With the same sex: you consider what attributes you need in a friend...a good friend not a gossip friends (girls you know what I am talking about when I say 'gossip friend')you want people who you can run to in times of need both spirituaally, pshychologically or otherwise...You want someone who you can have real talk with...who you can be real with and who will be real with you... People who you will push you into your destiny and who you can push into their destiny. These are the things I think about...and I sure know I am not the only one.

Now the opposite sex relationship part: you want someone who completes you...someone who can cross your t's and dot your i's without making you feel stupid but correcting you lovingly. Someone who is more spiritually advanced than you are and who is willing to share your visions and dreams with you and encourage you ever so often. Complement you on the little efforts you make and just make you feel good. Above all someone who LOVES you genuinely and not because you are tall dark and handsome and have a fat bank account or you are the epitome of a coke bottle, light skinned and beautiful.

Now these are just areas I picked because I think of them a great deal. It may be different for some but to some it may be the same. Here is what I have been learning since the beginning of this year and I hope it works for you too if you apply it.

I have decided (more like I have taken a pledge with myself) that I will exhibit patience and virtue. As a girl I have too but it doesn't mean guys are not to be patient and virtuous as well. I will explain to you why these two characteristics are imortant in our daily lives.

Patience: Patience (pā-shəns) is the state of endurance under difficult circumstances, which can mean persevering in the face of delay or provocation ...
(en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patience)

Endurance: the power to withstand hardship or stress (wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn)

These two attributes are what have kept me going for the past 31 days of this year. This is because as young people we are too hasty...we want so many things to work in our own way and at our own time. But people, life is not like that. We have to understand that there is a higher force than us who sees and knows our end from the beginning. Proverbs 3 v 6: In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.

This is what we need to do surrender all to God and be patient and believe that in due time He will see us through. Good things don't happen quickly. The best things in life don't happen in a rush...To cook good Jollof rice ( a Nigerian delicacy) and I mean good party Jollof rice you don't rush it and don't stir it. It then comes out beautiful and tasty. Take all your plans like that. There is no need to rush into anything. Don't rush to study a course you know you are not good at or won't be able to cope with along the line. Don't enter friendships with the same sex to which you know you do not share the same views as they would only corrupt you. Do not enter relationships with the opposite sex because you feel all your friends are in a relationship and it feels like the right thing to do. BE PATIENT. ENDURE all the stress and pressures of life. Because although you may seem like a late bloomer you will be in a better position than most of your peers.

I once watched a Mount Zion Ministries Move called 'Back to Zero point' . This film really touched me. It showed me how we can with our own hands ruin our destiny's because of lack of patience. Rushing to do God's work as orchestrator of our lives when He didn't ask for your help. At the end the result is going back to the same position you were running from.

Please no matter what you do remember this:
1.When you dont know where to turn, return to the Lord
2.Wait for your appointed time of Glory: Do not be too hasty...HE who began a good work in you will be faithful to complete it...

Just exercise a bit of patience.

Virtue: the quality of doing what is right and avoiding what is wrong
a particular moral excellence
(wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn)

Virtue comes into this whole Patience theory when you carry yourself in such a way that people admire you for being upright. Being virtuous should affect every area of our life. Carry yourself in such a way that people want to know you. Not for bad but for good. Carry yourself in such away that people want you to be their friend. Carry yourself in such a way that what you know you won't do infront of your parents you won't do outside. Carry yourself in such a way that you will be seen as a problem solver not a trouble causer.

Try and be accomodating so others can accomodate you. Exercise virtue in all you do...Ladies consider the Proverbs 31 woman. Guys you want a Proverbs 31 woman so why not be a Proverbs 31 Man...

I hope what I have written has inspired you guys...

I started with a prayer of peace because I think that is what we all need.

I will try and write as often as I can.

If this inspired you, share it with your friends and family.

Till next time,

Its me....Patience Virtue